By Ndaba Nduku.
Hey girl
When in most cases men publicly gang up against you it’s all because:
1. Some of them proposed and you turned them down. They think they own women.
2. They wanted their names mentioned alongside yours and you refused. Their inflated egos depend on their imposing themselves alongside successful people.
3. You refused to support their toy projects. They are fuming as if their success depends on you.
4. You shrunk their pampered balls by bruising their egos one way or the other. Some people are walking egg shells with jelly egos that can’t be hurt.
5. You have achieved more than they and their small houses and wives ever thought you will. Jealousy and hatred overwhelms them to the point of praying for your death. Don’t bow down to failures.
6. They are so poor and unfocused they have to survive by being paid by dodgy characters to humiliate you. Their meals come from others as if dogs fed of left overs! They are never worth your status.
7. Your mere presence humiliate them as they wish they were achievers like you. Few men can stand a successful woman. Most men love humiliating even women feeding them and dressing them.
8. They borrowed money they could not pay back. Your asking for it belittles their egos. Never trust a man who can’t hold a job and lies that he runs some company and get doesnt even know who feeds and dresses his own kids!!
9. Their women or wives are so jealousy of your success or who you such that they run it to the inadequate husbands / boyfriends. The men are fighting their women’s panty battles.
10. Their names are useless if not spent humiliating a successful woman. You just became their victim to massage their stunted inferior egos. They are only recognised as achievers if they can destroy some women of substance and successful people. Their sniffing and vindictive egos are inflated by noise around attempts at destroying someone.
11. You refused to help their women or small house one way or the other. You are not Mother Theresa; don’t allow them to turn you a social welfare department!
12. You hurt their women and they are fighting for their women who can’t face you but rather let loose Daddy whose voice is only loud outside the home. Be wary of such women as they can be friends too!!
13. They have nothing better to do other being followers of some assumed to be prominent individuals. Not working,not in any kind of education and with a phone in their hands, all they do is be attack dogs for their revered character. Never mind such puppies; they only make noise!!!
14. They are a former passionate or business partner or friend who still wants to impose themselves on your future. Be wary of them for they are the ones who can destroy you. Outside family members,they are the most unprincipled and dangerously jealousy vindictive individual. They will not rest and will create believable lies because they know you. Surround yourself with mature and seasoned men and women of dignity .
15. Keyboard triggers only happy to see a woman cry. They were disappointed or recently hurt by a woman and out to take it on all Eves out there. Never mind them, they quickly move on to another victim. They have nothing against you but are just annoying like flies.
Stand still and tall. Watch the skyline through shining glasses.
Ladies, enjoy your lovely day.
By Ndaba Nhuku
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