By Malambo Mweempwa.
It is the wish of every girl to get married on time; no lady wants late marriage; but why is it that some ladies still marry late? What are the causes of late marriage and how can it be prevented?
Some of the causes of late marriage and their solutions are as follows;
1. Some ladies are very dirty; they are not neat in terms of hygiene. This can chase men away. Therefore, be neat not only on the outside but also in the inside. Keep your undies clean. Your private parts must be kept clean to avoid bad odour that will chase men away.
2. Some ladies have bad character; they cannot relate well with men; they disrespect their boyfriends and shout at their boyfriends anyhow. Such ladies can only have boyfriends but it will be difficult for them to have husbands. If you have a bad character, men will only date you because of sex, but they may not marry you. If you have a bad character, a man will date you because you are beautiful and sexy and he will only use you to satisfy his sex urge. But when it is time for him to get married, he will dump you and choose another girl that has a good character. Therefore, work on your character. Real beauty is your character; not your physical appearance.
3. Do not play too hard to get. It can lead to delay in marriage.
4. Always smile; be friendly to every guy that comes your way. Being friendly does not mean that you are a flirt. Be polite to every guy that woos you; afterall it is not a crime for a guy to woo a lady. You should be happy that a guy woos you; it shows that you are worthy to be a girlfriend.
5. Always pray to God to assist you by directing your dream husband to you and not a player.
6. Stop searching for a tall, handsome and rich man. Those qualities are okay but hmm, you may keep on waiting for a rich, handsome and tall man to come and ask for your hand in marriage and before you know it, you are already 37 years old and yet the handsome tall and rich man has not yet come. So be wise; if you find a man that truly loves you and that gives you peace and happiness, marry him very fast.
7. sometimes, it is good to always attend social gathering like wedding, birthday parties, church programs, etc. Perhaps you may meet your dream man there who will be willing to marry you. Stop staying indoors all the time. Husband will not come and meet you inside your house.
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